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Flirting Tips and Dating Advice
Words of Wisdom to Help Make Your Dating Experience One to Remember
Be Couth
You are meeting someone for the first time. Whether on paper, or in person, mind your manners. Being rude or vulgar won't usually score you too many points! Flirting might.
Men are usually more guilty of this, but the same advice holds true for you women out there. I mentioned in one of my other pieces that, when flirting, it is acceptable to lightly brush up against your date. It is, however, not okay to pinch or grab one's derriere (ass) on the first date. You should leave that for MUCH later on...if at all!
If you go for the goodnight kiss, I wouldn't suggest trying to swallow your date's tonsils. Flirting is nice when it comes to kissing too.
Don't comment on a woman's "nice rack" or her "booty". It is okay to tell her she has nice legs, nice hair, pretty eyes, beautiful hands or a gorgeous smile (okay to tell him, as well).
Don't itch your ass.
Don't blatantly rearrange parts of your body...be discreet.
Brush your teeth, use deodorant, bathe and wash your hair (especially if you're a smoker or work in an environment that causes an unpleasant order to linger...like a fish market).
If you usually talk like a truck driver, try to refrain...especially if you are out in public. This suggestion is extremely important if you are around young children. If you are, by nature, a foul mouthed individual, you could apologize ahead of time and assure your date that you will make every attempt to keep it clean. That way, if that "F" word (the other "F" word, among others) escapes your lips, you can apologize profusely and your date will be more likely to overlook it.
My second husband thought it was funny when he belched or passed gas (the louder or smellier, the better). I know that there are those of you who think it's art if you can talk and burp at the same time. Believe me, most people don't share that opinion. Obviously, there are times when it can't be helped. A quiet "excuse me" is sufficient.
Be conscious of your behavior at the table. Don't chew with your mouth open (GROSS!). Don't talk with food in your mouth. Ladies, if you need to touch up your lipstick or run a comb through your hair, excuse yourself and take care of that in the restroom. Men, don't wear a hat at the table.
Say "please", "thank-you" and "excuse me", when the situation warrants. Mind your "P's and Q's", as they say, keep flirting and have fun!
Happy Dating!
About the author: Addie Scott is the webmistress of this site and has had extensive experience working, over the last 26 years, with people and their relationships. She has had multiple articles published online, is the author and illustrator of a soon to be published children's' book, and at present, she is working on a how-to internet business ebook.
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