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Flirting Tips and Dating Advice
Words of Wisdom to Help Make Your Dating Experience One to Remember
Be Flirtatious
Whether you are on your first date, have been dating for months or have been married for years, flirting does wonders! It's fun and it makes you feel good and sexy to boot. Try it!
Flirt: To play at courtship; coquet; trifle amorously.
If you're a woman, touch his arm lightly when you talk to him, make eye contact (and let them twinkle), let your arms and/or your knees touch lightly when sitting next to each other...almost as if it was an accident. Flirting can be lots of fun! Smile, as if it's a pleasant surprise. This will also let him know that you like it. Don't back up as though the touch shocks you. If he's wearing nice cologne, notice it and tell him he smells good. Compliment him on his clothes, his taste in wine, music or the places he picks to take you. If there's something about him that you particularly find attractive, let him know. Maybe it's his hands, his eyes, or the color of his skin. Make him aware, subtly and quietly, that these things have an effect on you. When you whisper, it requires him to come closer. If you've had a few dates and you end up at his place, notice the things he surrounds himself with and comment on them...whether it's his artwork, his music collection or the fact that he keeps a clean bathroom or kitchen. If he has candles (a lot of men do these days) let him know how nice you think it is. Notice the little things; those things that might set him apart from the other men you've dated. Flirting rules!
If you're a man, notice and comment on the same things. Compliment her on the way she looks, the way she wears her hair, her smile, or her hands. Don't, however, tell you she has a nice booty (there's a time and place for that). I dated a man recently who told me I smelled delicious. The way he said it made me quiver inside. I, in turn, let him know, quietly, that I smelled that way all over. Flirting with him was nice. At that moment you could cut the sexual tension in the air with a knife. We were out in public, in the middle of the day, and he made me feel delicious and wicked all rolled up into one. A nice little package that I was getting ready to let him open! His softness, tenderness and directness had turned me into putty. Unfortunately, this particular man stopped flirting with me almost as soon as we hit the sheets. Pity!
The secret is to continue flirting...day after day, date after date. Let him/her know, through this flirtatious behavior, just how much you enjoy them. Don't let that part disappear. If the relationship continues, you can leave little notes in unexpected places. If you're out in a crowd, at a party perhaps, whisper a little something sweet in his/her ear as you pass in the hallway, wink across a crowded room, steal him/her away from someone else they're having a conversation with. In other words, keep that flirtatious special something in the air. If you think you're too busy in your everyday life, take a moment out of your busy day to call and let them know they're on your mind. Maybe, while you're out, someone passes that uses the same fragrance...pick up the phone and let them know it made you think of them. Men, especially, have a way of being too busy. In my opinion, if you have the time to grab a bite to eat or go to the restroom, there's time for a quick phone call. Then, there's that unexpected call in the middle of the night. Granted, you will probably wake them up, but you'll definitely put a smile on their face that will remain as they drift back to sleep.
Flirt, flirt and flirt some more!
Happy Dating!
About the author: Addie Scott is the webmistress of this site and has had extensive experience working, over the last 26 years, with people and their relationships. She has had multiple articles published online, is the author and illustrator of a soon to be published children's book, and at present, she is working on a how-to internet business ebook.
bone up on your flirting (no pun intended)
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